Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Fourth of July weekend festivities

Well, in addition to being Jacob's half birthday, it was also his first fourth of July!

Saturday night (July 3) we went to a festival in Baldwin Park:

With Tanta Sarah

We were trying to leave before the fireworks started but they started as we got to our car. Turns out, he loved them! He didn't mind the loud noises at all! He is all boy!




Sunday night (July 4): we went to a party at Star's house.
Saying hi to his friend Allison (and Star and Amanda)

Visiting with Joanne and Holly


Aren't they cute together?






The three of us

Monday, July 5:

First, here is Jacob playing with his new train that Grandma Jane got him for his 6 month birthday:



Ready to go for a swim at the Grandparents (Toole)



Do these two look alike or what??

faux-hawk

I love how he holds onto the handles

Bon Voyage!






Jacob wasn't the only one who enjoyed the pool...Bailey is quite the swimmer!

Yep. He fell asleep in his jumperoo

6 months of nursing

A six month old baby also marks another important milestone for me- 6 months of breastfeeding. I have to brag a little here- I am SO proud of myself for making it this far. I know breastfeeding comes easily for some people and if you are one of them...oh how I envy you! Breastfeeding has been a struggle for me from day one. First, the lactation consultant in the hospital informed me that Jacob was tongue tied and therefore, could not get a very good latch. No problem for him- he ate and gained weight like a champ. Big problem for me as it was extremely painful. I decided to just suck it up and keep going, and our first week home was really rough. When I couldn't handle it anymore I contacted a local lactation consultant and went in for a consultation. Best money I have ever spent! She told me I really needed to take care of the tongue tie so he can get a better latch. We scheduled an appointment with an ENT and it was taken care of, and it really wasn't a big deal. Then we went back to the lactation consultant and she helped with his latch.

I wish I could say things got better from here. His latch certainly did, but I continued to have problem after problem. Plugged ducts, milk blisters that would not go away, and mastitis complete with a fever just to name a few. And I will spare you the gory details of the worst problem of all, but lets just say a breast surgeon and stitches were involved :( I spent nights crying to Sean because I didn't want to quit, but I feared that breastfeeding would never be painless for me.

And then somewhere around the 4 month mark- all the problems went away. And for the past 2 months, breastfeeding has been a wonderful, beautiful, completely positive experience. And even though I have had more bad months than good, it was completely worth it and I'd go through it all again for my little man.

And so, I feel that I have earned the right to brag about my six months of exclusive breastfeeding. It is something I wanted to do SO badly but at times I thought I wouldn't make it to my goal of a year. Now I KNOW I will and I'm even thinking about going longer. But I couldn't have done it alone. Many people deserve credit. My lactation consultant- I never would have made it this far without her. Our pediatrician, who is always very encouraging and tells me what a great job I'm doing. Sean for comforting me and encouraging me. And finally- Jacob, who has been a champion eater from day one so that I've never had to supplement.

We will start solids this month and that makes me a little sad. I love this exclusive breast milk phase. I think the fact that I have struggled so much to get here makes me want to hang on to breastfeeding even longer. I simply love it. When I am feeding him I feel a bond between us that is like nothing else. It is just amazing to think that he has thrived on nothing but breast milk for 6 whole months. It is the best that I can give him and I'm so proud to be doing it.

Sunday, July 4, 2010

July 4th- 6 months old


I cannot believe my baby is 6 months old today. 6 months ago, I was at Winter Park Hospital. Exhausted, recovering from a c-section, and enjoying my new little man. I've been thinking about how much he has changed since he was born, and since I missed out on most of the first 6 months of blogging, I thought now would be a good time to catch up and reflect on the past 6 months.

Month 1 (Jan 4-Feb 3):

Swimming in that newborn size onesie! We spent the first month getting to know each other. With the exception of doctors visits, visits to the lactation consultant and our mother baby tea, we never left the house (although we did have many, many visitors!). Sleep was hard to come by but we figured out what worked and what didn't: Swing? Yes. Bouncy seat? Sometimes. Hair dryer? Yes. Sleep sheep? No. Laps around the pool table? No. After a particularly rough night and some googling by Sean, we learned what cluster feeding was. By the end of the first month we had found our groove. We mostly knew what he wanted when he cried, how to know when he was full, and some tricks to get him to sleep.

Month 2 (Feb 4-Mar 3):
Lots of changes this month. The best milestone happened around 6 weeks when he gave us his first (intentional) smile. I can remember rocking him one night, trying to get him to go to sleep and he just kept looking up at me and smiling. I told him he never had to sleep again if he kept smiling at me like that!

Month 3 (Mar 4-Apr 3):
As you can see in this picture, his personality really started to come out in the third month! One of my favorite milestones was his first laugh. I will never forget it. Sean and I had gone to a movie while he stayed with the Toole Grandparents. When we came back and I went to get him, he started smiling like crazy when he saw me, and then laughing! He was so excited to see me.


He also slept through the night for about a week, until the 3 month growth spurt hit!

He had his first trip to the beach this month, when we went down to Miami Beach for Kim and Evan's wedding. Also his first swim in a pool since the hotel had a heated pool. I think he enjoyed both!

Month 4 (Apr 4-May 3)

This month was his first plane ride- out to Vegas for Thomas and Ashley's wedding (Bubbe came to babysit). He saw the strip and hoover dam (where we went on the dam tour).

Jacob always meets his milestones but he likes to make me sweat it! As he was nearing the 4 month mark he had made no effort at all to roll over. I thought oh well, I guess that is one milestone he won't meet. Well, just a week shy of 4 months, while we were out in Vegas, all the sudden he decided to try, and he tried really hard and he did it! My Mom called to me to come quick, I grabbed my point and shoot and video taped it! That was back to belly, and within the week he had figured out how to roll belly to back as well. As soon as he figured out he could roll, he started rolling over every time I put him down to sleep, and has been a tummy sleeper ever since. Thus ended our swaddling days (we stopped cold turkey).

I noticed a big change in how alert he is this month. He loves to watch everything going on in the world around him. Nursing has been a bit of a challenge because he is very easily distracted. And it doesn't even have to be anything exciting- the upholstery on the glider is much more important than eating these days.


Month 5 (May 4-Jun 3)

The fifth month brought a wonderful change- sleeping through the night! He started sleeping from about 7:30pm to 7:30am! When he wakes up in the morning he is all smiles. Heaven.

This month he began reaching for things. The first time he really reached out for something, he was sitting on Daddy's lap at the sushi restaurant. He reached for Daddy's bowl of miso soup and dumped it all over the 2 of them! He reaches for anything and everything, and whatever he manages to get goes straight into his mouth!

Unfortunately he got his first fever this month :( It was after his 4 month shots. In a panic I called his doctor, I'm not really sure why.... I knew what to do. I knew what caused the fever. After a dose of tylenol he was feeling better and it was probably harder on me than it was on him!

My favorite month yet. He was so alert and aware of everything. He would get up on all fours and try to crawl. He was getting really close but he'd just rock back and forth and eventually move backwards.

He got a neck this month! One night in the bathtub, I went to wash his neck, fully prepared to tilt his head back and move chins out of the way as usual.....and I didn't have to do either because there it was! Welcome to the world, Jacob's neck.

Also, the fuzz on his head turned to hair! Beautiful, dirty blond hair. I love running my fingers through it while I am nursing.

He is almost sitting up. He can sit unassisted for a few minutes but he will eventually fall over!

And I almost forgot- on July 3, one day before he turned 6 months...Jacob cut his first tooth! It was the bottom middle and I didn't even realize he was teething because he didn't cry! What a toughie!

Jacob, thank you for being an amazing baby these past six months! I can't wait to see what you have in store for us over the next six months!

Catching up...again.....

Jake has been very busy! Practicing sitting...



oops!

......practicing piano

?????

......nomming

.....and snoozing

We love going to play group!
the Jacobs

Gymboree!


And another play group
Have you ever seen a cuter pair of Jacobs??

The girls - Claire and Amanda. Notice how delicately they hold their toys? Behind them the boys are busy banging toys together. The differences are so interesting, even at a young age

Theodore, just chillin'

Playing is exhausting

2 tired Jacobs

And finally....Jacob has been very busy just being cute :)
Yes, he fell asleep like this! To quote Joanne: "Must get teddy bear. Must get...zzz."
Hi Mom!

Really Mom? Another picture?

Jumperoo!